I (21F) have been in a happy relationship with my boyfriend (23M) for 2.5 years now. Before he dated me he was dating a girl (25F) that he met online who lives in a different state. At the beginning of our relationship she called him once asking for a second chance and he hung up and ignored her. Months later his mom made him contact her so she could send back a stuffed animal that he gave her since it was his first toy as a kid and his mom wanted it back. I was annoyed, but it was for his mom so I didn’t care too much. She was really rude and tried to manipulate him with the stuffed animal so he gave up and blocked her number. They haven’t had any contact in over 2 years. She was also dating a new guy for a long time and as soon as they broke up she tried to log into my Instagram. I knew it was her because it gave me her exact location and I don’t know anyone else who would do this and I know she’s been stalking me for a while now. My boyfriends Instagram used to be public and mine was too, but I didn’t even know she had one. I put all my accounts on private after I realized she could be stalking us. Now yesterday she sent my boyfriend a request on Snapchat. He told me about it and he blocked her. Now I’m starting to get really stressed and paranoid about this because every time I try to get over it she comes back and tries to contact us in some way or another. I’m just so sick of it and I hate her so much. Should I confront her about it so she’ll stop or should I just ignore it even though it might keep happening and making me upset?
Tl;dr: My boyfriends ex tried to hack my Instagram and tried to add my boyfriend on Snapchat. She won’t stop trying to contact us. Should I confront her or ignore her?