As my username says this is a throwaway account and didn’t want to link this to my personal account since my boyfriend knows my username. Also sorry if the formatting is weird I am on mobile. I really need another perspective on this situation.
We have been dating for almost an month but talked and meet up multiple times for about 2 months before he asked me out.
As it’s stated my boyfriend told me he loves me and not my body. I had my suspicions for a bit especially after we tried to have sex. He said it was his nerves getting to him since he never had a girlfriend before and this was his first time having sex or any type of intimacy. I reassured him everything was fine we didn’t have to have sex and being next to him makes me more than happy. I talked to him a few days later about my suspicions as he was acting different and that’s when he told me that he loves me and all the time we shared together but just not my body. I can’t get out what he said about me from my head, when he told me that my entire body doesn’t turn him on it felt like my heart dropped. I really like him but I can’t get over what he said to me. I should note that when comparing my boyfriend to myself I am taller and wider then him, he is skinner while I am more curvy.
I would just appreciate any advice please and thank you. Also sorry if there are an mistakes I was writing this as fast as I don’t know what to do and can’t really talk about this to any of my family members or friends.
TL;DR: We tried to be intimate things didn’t work out, noticed a difference with him for the last few days. I decided to talk to him about it and confessed that he loves and finds me attractive but just not certain parts of my body.