My relationship with my mother has been a bit rocky lately. We get along well but there has been some tension. She always demands me to be home before 11 and is VERY in my business. I know I still live under her roof but I’m an adult now and am a full time student. I do well in school and am very well behaved, always have been. I have always sensed she prefers my brother over me since they are so alike and me and her are so different but it doesn’t bother me much anymore.
The point of this post is today I was gathering my cash to deposit in the bank. All my tip money from work ($200 CAD) was still there but in one of my side table drawers I kept about ($100USD) which was gone. This money was from my parents to use on a volunteer trip which got cancelled over 7 months ago due to Covid. They told me to save the money and that I could keep it. It’s been sitting in my drawer securely since then.
Well today I look and it’s gone. My mom hasn’t said anything about it to me and I haven’t said anything yet either. Along with this she went through another one of my drawers where I keep my vape juice and personal journals. I’m one year underage where I live but I feel like since I’m an adult I should be able to make those decisions for myself now. It’s evident she also opened some of my journals where I write very personal things too.
I don’t know what to do about this situation. Maybe I’m in the wrong but I don’t know. Please don’t start telling me it’s bad to vape because I know the risks and that really isn’t the point of this post.
TL:DR; mom took cash from me and went through my personal stuff (vape stuff, journals).