First of all, please no judgements about me having had work done. I’m not asking for opinions about that.
So I’m really private about who to tell about the surgery to. I’ve only told my roommate and a couple of friends who I’ve known for many years. I knew this girl for about a year and a half, which isn’t a super short time, but def not as long as I’ve known my other friends. When I told her, she acted supportive & fine with it. But since we last hung out, she’s ignored my text. Her and her husband used to hit me up and now they stopped talking to me. I regret telling her about the surgery, as it’s something that I def don’t want the world to know. Plus she has an incriminating video of me doing something embarrassing that I want to get her to delete (& should’ve asked her to delete on the spot).
So it’s been about a month. I’m really annoyed that she straight up ignored me since then. We all used to talk and hang out regularly. I know she and her husband have had financial issues, so maybe that’s another reason why I shouldn’t have told her I blew thousands of dollars on cosmetic procedures. I guess I feel especially sensitive that about it because she knows something really personal that I told her I haven’t told anybody else about except for a couple of friends who I’m super tight with.
Tldr; hung out with my friend a month ago and she acted nice about it when I told her I had plastic surgery recently. But since then, she’s ignored my text & her & her husband no longer hit me up or invite me to hang out with them. She also has an incriminating video about it. I’m a little resentful she’d ignore me after I confided in her. Should I say something? I don’t want to sound accusatory but I think she’s being really rude.
Not entirely sure if these things are related, but it makes me so uncomfortable that she’d stop talking to me right after I told her this.